I really really love San Francisco and miss it. My heart hurts when I see pictures of it.
But since moving back to Seattle, for the first time in awhile I feel calm and content.
I’m starting to figure out life is not a race. And hopefully i can return to the bay area in the future.
I’ve never understood the “nobody actually notices you” rhetoric used to soothe people with social anxiety because it’s always been so apparent that they do notice! they’re sexually lecherous or cruel, they spit and mock and taunt, children snicker or point, they smile back…
if youre in a heterosexual relationship like who gets to be the woman and who gets to be the other woman?